A Nigerian lady has shared her observation on how her boyfriend’s house is always stocked with food when she is around, a stark contrast to the emptiness when she is away.
The Lady known as _askoflorlah showcased the variety of dishes she prepares for her boyfriend whenever she visits his house. However, when she’s not there, he never cooks, and she often returns to find empty plates in the kitchen.
Captioning the video, she wrote: “POV: me at my man’s place vs when I’m not around. When I’m not around for days. Omo this boy no fit cook.”
Nigerian men are often known to rely heavily on their romantic partners for home-cooked meals, rarely cooking for themselves. This video has sparked a conversation about this cultural norm.
Here are some reactions from netizens:
- Doctor Alex Boseman wrote: “You can cook very well, green flag. God Abeg make my babe dey cook like this.”
- Miracle said: “I sabi cook but I no get man this life no balance true true.”
- RoyalTee commented: “Chef, continue dey cook for man dey go.”
- I’m happy shared: “Na me be this, I can’t even boil egg.”
- PRECIOUS noted: “Cooking, cleaning & washing for a man that deserves it will always be an act of love for me o!”
- Abidoshakerr expressed: “Omo some kind guys nor no watin God do for dem for giving dem girlfriend way truly love dem. I really wish I had one.”
The video continues to generate discussion about the dynamics of cooking and caregiving in relationships among Nigerian couples.
